Wednesday, June 29, 2011

I had been working on a very long and very wordy, Wordy Wednesday post... and then I began a small conversation. It led into another post needing to go up today. Please read the following guest post... and do something if you feel led to.


On April 14th, 2011 my 2 ½ year old son, Thor, was diagnosed with Autism, Sensory Processing Disorder, and Extreme Anxiety; he leads a life apart from others his age.

Thor's brain has difficulty processing the sensory information that he perceives; many times sights, sounds, smells, and touch can overwhelm him and even be painful. This usually leads to outbursts and a desire to flee the situation. Every moment of every day Thor fights against his natural tendencies to be afraid, anxious, or overwhelmed. He is only semi-verbal and does not respond to strangers or to his name being called if he were to wander or hide. He's run away in stores more times than I can count - hiding on shelves and behind counters, leaving me afraid and searching.

There are many issues that arise from Thor’s disabilities that make living each day difficult for Thor and myself (a single parent). He must have his hand held constantly or be on a toddler “leash,” because his severe anxiety causes him to run away and hide when out in public. He also self injures - hitting, slapping, pinching or punching himself and even banging his head on hard surfaces.

Thor is also a loving child and has an infectious laugh. I strive every day to help him overcome the many obstacles he of the ways I can help him is by getting a specially trained Autism Service Dog through 4 Paws for Ability. Thor has been accepted into the Autism Service Dog program; but I must first complete the fundraising requirement for the non-profit agency that trains these dogs - 4 Paws for Ability eliminates a long waiting list by allowing their clients’ family, friends, and community to raise $13,000 (USD) to help cover some of the cost of extensive training service dogs require. I've reached 35% of my goal so far. (

A service dog would allow Thor the ability to have more freedom when we are in public by having him tethered to the dog and being able to walk along side the dog, rather than being carried or strapped in a stroller. A service dog would also be able to track and retrieve Thor if he were to get away from me, comfort him when he is upset or having a meltdown, and keep him from dangerous activities and bad behaviors. It would give me another set of eyes to keep Thor safe.

4 Paws for Ability takes a child with Autism and all the difficulties they have with verbalization, communication, and social relationships and pairs them with a well trained service dog specifically trained to meet their unique needs; to create a consistency in the child's life as their dogs go every where that they go, even within places of public accommodation, and the educational system bringing along with them: consistency, stability, and calm reassurance that the feelings of anxiety or fear are not needed because their trusted buddy is by their side.

In my fundraising journey, I found myself in the lead to win $50,000 for my favorite charity. I need to stay in that #1 spot until July 17th - and if I do... if I WIN this contest...I plan on celebrating! Because you all have helped me so much to get this far I plan on giving away $100 CASH (of my own money via paypal) to one person if I win this. To help, all you need to do is click this link and then "connect with facebook" (that's it! no voting, just sign up). You can enter to win the $100 by visiting here.

here is Thor's Video:

Thanks to all who have supported us in this journey!

Erin Blocksidge


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